I had a bad day yesterday, or I should say some bad moments. I let things that don’t even deserve my time affect me. I snapped at the Hubs, at the girls, I was just downright pissed off and hurt and I took it out on them. And then after realizing I was taking it out on everyone else who really does matter, the Momma guilt took over, and I had me a good cry. I was that girl crying in the Costco parking lot. Yup, that was me. A kind-hearted grandpa knocked on my window and asked if I was ok #blesshisheart
During my pity party, one of my bestfriends pointed out to me that she was in a similar situation and my advice to her was “cut the fat baby!” Cut the fat baby = my motto = if another person is in no way shape or form bringing something positive to your life, and is actually bringing you the exact opposite, cut the fat baby! Easy advice to follow don’t ya think? Everything is easier said than done, but it’s a great motto!
Let Go Already*No Need to Justify*Take It or Leave It
So many times I’ve heard “you can’t always be this happy?” or the occasional “what are you on that makes you so happy?”
It takes LESS energy to CHOOSE to be positive aka happy, as oppose to CHOOSING to be negative.
Don’t get the wrong idea, I am NOT Mrs. Positive every second of everyday. To be honest, that gets exhausting too! Ya’ll know what I mean right!?
With the drama that ensued yesterday, He reminded me once again what’s important. What really matters. I needed that reminder. And in that I find comfort.
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